Howdy all......

I have not been on in like a long time.  My Mom was sick and I was busy taking care of her.  She passed away in July, and I am having a hard time dealing with it.  I have got a question though.  I am trying to get through my Mom's death and my daughter and her husband are getting divorced.  How do I seperate the two and not get drugged into the divorce.  I am still trying to grieve.  (Mom will be gone 1 month tomorrow).  I told my daughter that I didn't want to hear anything about the two of them.  But when I think about it I get sick to my stomach. I have bouts of crying because I miss Mom so much.  I really could care less what my daughter and her husband (soon to be ex husband) as long as they take care of my Grandkids...that is all I am asking.  They are using them as pawns.  Any help would be appreciated!  Thanks so much!  Debbie

Hi Debbie,

It is completely understandable that you do not have any more emotional energy left over to cope with your daughter