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Posted By: Debbie
Subject: Howdy all......
Date Posted: Aug 21, 2012 at 6:06pm
I have not been on in like a long time.  My Mom was sick and I was busy taking care of her.  She passed away in July, and I am having a hard time dealing with it.  I have got a question though.  I am trying to get through my Mom's death and my daughter and her husband are getting divorced.  How do I seperate the two and not get drugged into the divorce.  I am still trying to grieve.  (Mom will be gone 1 month tomorrow).  I told my daughter that I didn't want to hear anything about the two of them.  But when I think about it I get sick to my stomach. I have bouts of crying because I miss Mom so much.  I really could care less what my daughter and her husband (soon to be ex husband) as long as they take care of my Grandkids...that is all I am asking.  They are using them as pawns.  Any help would be appreciated!  Thanks so much!  Debbie

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Posted By: Debbie
Date Posted: Aug 21, 2012 at 6:06pm
I have not been on in like a long time.  My Mom was sick and I was busy taking care of her.  She passed away in July, and I am having a hard time dealing with it.  I have got a question though.  I am trying to get through my Mom's death and my daughter and her husband are getting divorced.  How do I seperate the two and not get drugged into the divorce.  I am still trying to grieve.  (Mom will be gone 1 month tomorrow).  I told my daughter that I didn't want to hear anything about the two of them.  But when I think about it I get sick to my stomach. I have bouts of crying because I miss Mom so much.  I really could care less what my daughter and her husband (soon to be ex husband) as long as they take care of my Grandkids...that is all I am asking.  They are using them as pawns.  Any help would be appreciated!  Thanks so much!  Debbie % ic adp` - ,(b` $( b !( ,,,--% -,--,Bb '$


Posted By: Ericachristina
Date Posted: Aug 22, 2012 at 12:37am

Hi Debbie,

It is completely understandable that you do not have any more emotional energy left over to cope with your daughter



Posted By: Debbie
Date Posted: Aug 22, 2012 at 3:18pm
Thank you so much Erica!  I am sorry for your losses also.  Today was a month since Mom died adnd while it has been hard, I am learning to let go and let my Daughter walk on her own.  Since I have been doing this, I have not been as stressed!!!  Which for me is such a good thing!  I try to take it one day a time but I have to sometimes break that day down to minutes, sometimes even into seconds.  I am a cryer, anyway.  Always have been.  So, the tears come easy.  Now they come more easy after losing my Best Friend!  Thank you for answering me.  God Bless you!
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Posted By: Ericachristina
Date Posted: Aug 22, 2012 at 6:14pm

Hi Debbie,

You are very welcome. I




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