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Topic: help meee
Posted By: GUEST!
Subject: help meee
Date Posted: Jan 7, 2004 at 12:27pm
ok i wanna grow my hair long and i want it to look kinda like this, the same kinda look/quality hair but not quite that style, how do i get me hair like that without it looking too shiny or using gel that makes it super shiny, or wax which makes it greecy.

at the min my hair has lots of static and looks pretty dull. could n e 1 plz suggest something to help?

i heard head and shoulders is really good but i also heard bad things about it. here are some pics of the kinda hair i want

like this but diff style



this looks pretty similar but less wet looking i want



and this one is amasing



ok guys , thx alot plz help :D



Replies: 38
Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 7, 2004 at 12:27pm
ok i wanna grow my hair long and i want it to look kinda like this, the same kinda look/quality hair but not quite that style, how do i get me hair like that without it looking too shiny or using gel that makes it super shiny, or wax which makes it greecy.

at the min my hair has lots of static and looks pretty dull. could n e 1 plz suggest something to help?

i heard head and shoulders is really good but i also heard bad things about it. here are some pics of the kinda hair i want

like this but diff style



this looks pretty similar but less wet looking i want



and this one is amasing



ok guys , thx alot plz help :D


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 18, 2004 at 2:17pm
wow great tips , thankyou, iv just read this and i think i will try what you say, aulthough some of the things you mentiond seem a little hard to get hold of, but thankyou very much, at the min my hair is medium thickness, and about up to my eyes (used to be longer) im growin it tho, its dyed black and i get loads of static/fly away when i wash my hair which seemed to get worse after using leave in conditioner, couple of questions tho.

how should i dry my hair, how do i stop hair fly away n stuff and which is the best shampoo i could buy in a supermarket (is head and shoulders as good as they say in the advert coz i heard lots of bad thing and lots of good) plz reply :D ty so much


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 18, 2004 at 2:21pm
also on step 2, how small are we talking?

also should i use shampoo for colour treated hair? coz i havent been doing be4, and plz suggest me one :D, a one easy to buy in the shop like panten or head and shoulders or somethin


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 18, 2004 at 2:23pm
one last thing, how often should i wash my hair and when shuold i use deep conditioner, thanks !


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 21, 2004 at 12:28pm
wow man thx for all the great help, heres my current condtion/general stuff bout my hair 4 u :D

dyed:black
fly aways: yup yup
using: 2:1 dandruf thing for a bit :(
going to use: colour treated shampoo & condtioner
also using:John frieda deep con
wash hair: about every 3 days
styling products used: non (maybie a tiny bit of gel
length: about to the top of my eyes
temperature in my area: cold, rainy windy :(
dry: towel

err, thats it, thx for all ur tips, ill wash my hair now and see how it goes. also one question, if i wanna wash my hair quickly eg going to work in the morning or stuff or waking up in morning wot do i do?

and could u suggest some decent things i can buy to dye my hair black coz the last one, felt like it was burning me.


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 21, 2004 at 12:32pm
when pressign the gel into my hair , could u plz elaborate on that plz coz im having trouble with that part


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 21, 2004 at 1:14pm
also, when u add gel to make it stay togethern clumps, u mean like this rite? coz id like mine to look tike that, thats wot the gel at the ends r for rite?


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 22, 2004 at 7:23am
thanks again, one thing i come across today is that this stuff (duno wot it is) is a styling product or some thing and wot it does is, makes ur hair slightly shiny, holds bits of hair together, allows movement and doesnt look greacy and doesnt seem to dry out, is this just wet look gel or something? coz it looks ace and doesnt dry out but i dunnot wot it is


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 22, 2004 at 9:55am
i dunno, kinda like this, u know its got something in it


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 22, 2004 at 9:56am


bad link


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 23, 2004 at 9:44am
oh and also im gonna be getting my hair cut soon to get the colour out, so plz gimmi tips on which shampoo and conditioner is the best :D im thinking about head and shoulders coz i do have a bit of split ends n dandruff :(. also im getting it cut coz the black has faded and i had lots of split ends and static so i screwed it up and starting again, plz post back, tyyy


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 24, 2004 at 10:53am
you didnt tell me what that stuff was that i didnt know about, n e way , i got my hair cut and i havent got quite all the black out yet, but its definatly better condition then be4.


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 24, 2004 at 10:56am
also i cant get the online things coz i dont have a credit card, could u plz tell me which is the best that i could buy in a superstore eg: panten pro v, herbal essences,h&s,fructis, which is best outa those 4? and what the product i didnt know plz, ty :D


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 24, 2004 at 11:49am
idea time, how about if i just whack this over and wash my hair about every 2-3 days.



Secret Agent lightly lubricates hair leaving it supple,smooth and shiny.It gives 24 hr coverage,permeating the hair shaft,taming static and flyaway hair.With a sunscreen to help protect from UV damag


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 25, 2004 at 10:03am
well i just washed my hair and it looked absolutly crap dry, lots of static n split ends, so i just put some gel on and spiked it up till it gets longer, im still gonna wash it often tho, im guessing i should shampoo about every 2 days and condition it every day rite? would that fix split ends or r they perminent?

also u stil didnt tell me wot that product was :D
it seems to have a bit of hold, looks slightly shiny (not greecy) ,ill try to find u more pics...


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 26, 2004 at 1:46pm
example time





this is pomade? sry but i cant find a good picture


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 27, 2004 at 8:43am
phew, finally a product i can buy :D that john frieda stuff i can get eazyy.

so, lemmi go throught it and u tell me if im rite,

wet/shampoo/deep condition/dry out/add that agent stuff/add strightening balm and comb through

also whats a wide tooth comb :D?


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 27, 2004 at 8:44am
or wont i need the friz ease if i get this balm?


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Jan 27, 2004 at 8:45am
oh damn, the shop i buy it from doesnt seem to sell. would u mind going to this link and seeing which i should use, like that balm thing

http://www.asda.com/asda_shop/sys/web_sys02_a_main_frameset.jsp?BV_SessionID= - http://www.asda.com/asda_shop/sys/web_sys02_a_main_frameset.jsp?BV_SessionID= @@@@1236886402.1075214925@@@@&BV_EngineID=cccladckiddjmljcfkfcfkjdgoodglo.0


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 1, 2004 at 9:49am
i dont need to put any gel or anything in it rite?


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 2, 2004 at 6:26pm
ok, this stuff, it clumps together bits of hair and makes it slightly darker and adds a little hold, its pomade rite? coz i cant seem to get hold of pomade, so far i got deep condition and defrizz agent stuff, im looking on asda.com (:P) n e chance u could look for me? coz i just cant find it grr


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 4, 2004 at 1:18pm
i did use wax be4 but i used too much and it looked super greacy, could u plz tell me how much of it to use and when i shuold use it, like wash/condition/deep con a bit on wet hair/anti friz stuff same way/then wax?

sry if its confusing


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 6, 2004 at 2:42pm
well how would u do it if u wanted the clumping together and like, all over ur hair


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 9, 2004 at 1:27pm
gotcha, well, ill be putting a long post tomorrow about all the things i guess i havent told u, + the outcome of some of my experiments, will be a long post i guess, just lettin u know lol :D


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 10, 2004 at 11:24am
not the big post yet but... to get the separation, do u need a large tooth comb? and which type of wax should i use? hold/styling/gel wax/strong there are lots of types, the only big store i got near me is asda, could u plzzzzzzzzz look at asda.co.uk on the online shopping and see which wax is best for me, coz im stuck, tyyyy


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 12, 2004 at 8:46am
ok first of all, my hair i had it cut abuot 2 months ago when it was really long, it kinda sucked tho coz the dye screwed it up, i used wax then but it looked super greacy coz i put a LOT on, also when i washed my hair it kind of stuck to my head :D.

now my has been cut, it was dyed black but is naturally brown, theres still a little black on the tips, about 2 cm but on the sides its all out coz its shorter.

while its short, iv just been making it spikey becuase it looks dull being short and flat , + i dont have the anti frizz stuff yet, gotta get some more


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 12, 2004 at 8:48am


this is the main look i want - 2nd pic




this is 3rd- a close up




if im doing n e thing wrong to get this style plz tell me, *phew* finally finished :D


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 12, 2004 at 8:51am
stupid pictues.... lemmi try again



seperation one -3rd



Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 13, 2004 at 12:44pm
couple little things, what are bangs?

also i need the applying explaning a little more because i know little abut styling, eg: finger shake your hair into the position, how to apply only at the ends, and how to use the spray over ur hair and how much , sorry but i dont get it lol


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 16, 2004 at 9:27am
also im having trouble finding a wide tooth comb, there isnt one named "wide tooth" and i dont know what im looking for


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 26, 2004 at 9:23am
ok, well what iv been trying isnt working very well, the main look i want is this


with this look, u can see, its a bit shiny and clumps together and allows for lots of movement it looks like.

at the min what iv been doign is waiting for my hair to try, then working in a bit of wax (the one u suggestes) then some of that clay (the one u said) on the ends, i dont have the light gel yet or the anti friz stuff. will the light gel stop it looking a tad bit dull? what affect will the light gel have, because the method i tryed sucks.

also i tryed doign my hair with soem gel with wax, i did wax and clay stuff like i said abouve but this time i added a little gel on the tips and a little all over, this stoped my hair looking dull and added clumpinf and a little movement (my hair is about.. 3 inches long im guessing) and i might dye my hair black again as when it was black i didnt use colourd hair shampoos and its dulled now. plz reply, thanks!

oh one last thing, if the light gel is a spray , will it still b effective? coz i never used spray be4


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 26, 2004 at 9:27am
also i been looking for a wide tooth comb and cant find 1, is there anywhere on the internet i can find a decent one? thx


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 27, 2004 at 8:16am


as you see in this picture , i think its the same style but not tucked behind the ears, with the stuff iv been trying its not the look iv been getting, ill try to get you soem photos when i get my camera working. also i posted abouve what i have tryed so far, coz with the current method, its just not what i been getting. thx!


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Feb 27, 2004 at 8:17am
all the hair seems to be clumped together , but mine just wont do it so far,maybie the light gel and a wide tooth comb would help, but i cant find a comb that would give that much separation and i cant seem to get it, thx


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Mar 4, 2004 at 7:04am
well ok just go through it one more time plz, at the min im doing normal stuff, shampoo, condition about every 2-3 days, how often should i shampoo/con/deep con if im adding a bit of wax when my hair is wet to have a sleekish look (i know its not wot i want but its workin for now) and some wax n gel at the bangs. thx

also having trouble getting wide-tooth comb coz i cant find and dunno wot im lookin for , thx!


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Mar 4, 2004 at 7:23am
oh, and i cant find this wide tooth comb lol, i looked on adsa website and on ebay, plz help :D


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Mar 4, 2004 at 7:27am
oh one last thing, when i start washing my hair better, will split ends go away? coz i do have a few, just wondering if u could repair them or something


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Mar 4, 2004 at 8:49am
*sorry for spamming up the boards*

ok problem time, i just washed my hair and conditiond it and the hair at the front (bangs) kinda has a curl to the right on it, which it didnt have be4, this coz i didnt wash everything out properly?
n e way, some gel fixed that, but the way the hairdresser cut my hair sucks, is all jagged and didnt cut bangs in streight line, well it is, but its all jagged and has chunks out here and there, i dont really wanna get my hair cut again. but i guess if i cant fix split ends, that wot im gonna have to do :(


Posted By: GUEST!
Date Posted: Apr 20, 2004 at 6:43am
u here? u havent posted for quite some time :D



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