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Topic: Drama on BHM
Posted By: msteeniebaby
Subject: Drama on BHM
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:30am
Well it didn't take long to come across a lil drama on the old forum.  Lurked there for awhile and talk about some mess.  Seems somebody bought a unit from another member and it was jacked up.  EVERYBODY got an opinion on what she should do.  Most insist that she BLAST the member to save others from being burned.  Sound familiar, heard it all before, same ol same ol?  Yeah, glad to be over here where folks act like they got some sense.  Heard there were 67 folks logged in the other night.  Now do you wonder that there might have been some scammin going on?  Anyhow, the saga continues and just remember, it is what it is!



Replies: 64
Posted By: msteeniebaby
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:30am
Well it didn't take long to come across a lil drama on the old forum.  Lurked there for awhile and talk about some mess.  Seems somebody bought a unit from another member and it was jacked up.  EVERYBODY got an opinion on what she should do.  Most insist that she BLAST the member to save others from being burned.  Sound familiar, heard it all before, same ol same ol?  Yeah, glad to be over here where folks act like they got some sense.  Heard there were 67 folks logged in the other night.  Now do you wonder that there might have been some scammin going on?  Anyhow, the saga continues and just remember, it is what it is! % Pied Dq @ ! 4 B` $2,"" .


Posted By: soxgirl119
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:39am
lol! I think i know who sold the crappy wig but i won't tellCool!,% `bh te ` $ ,$ ` bb . %,, ,%$% $)4"


Posted By: MsLiberty
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 2:27am
WOW


Posted By: ash8419
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 2:35am
Originally Posted By: soxgirl119,#d  4`((# ` (
 
Me too!!!! And its so sadConfused
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Posted By: fllwlover
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 5:03am
  It's sad....But what can you do...Munching





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Posted By: PrincessLF
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 5:04am
I've been trying to figure out who sold the bad unit.  I still lurk over there from time to time.  I think it's sad for anyone to sell an item and not disclose all the flaws willingly.


Posted By: fllwlover
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 5:09am
I'm wondering that myself princessLF....Confused $- P cn`dp0% 00BB .(4`p /.%%%, --!!%,!$$B` #.


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 5:14am
its unfortunate i know the lady who this happened too, she lives in the same town as me..


Posted By: bigmomma
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 8:52am

Thats Censored up . but it always come back around

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Posted By: newtolacewigs
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 8:55am
I lurk on BHM from time to time but I don't post. When I read about the lf that the BHM member sold, I was astonished. Why would someone do something like that. That's just wrong.


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:24am
Originally Posted By: newtolacewigs d`"( $b D ``e$
 
child the stories i could tell you, that's not even the worst scam its very mild in comparison..


Posted By: GlamorusStarr
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:26am
Yeah all I did was post some information on how to sell and buy mentioning the unusual activity by having over 60 people logged on at the same time....hell it looked unusual to me......well Tongue it was looked at the wrong way I guess...sucks huh? Oh well, that's my last time trynna help. I got my own problems and BHM will not be one of them Approve. I see why so many people are spacing away from that mess...I am not the catty type....I snap and POP so it's just best for me to lurk over there.
 
Personally, after all the sneaking things that I have seen and been through, I wouldnt purchase anything from I dont know and trust unless I can sue them or bust them in the mouth!! boxer
GlamorusStarr2008-03-25 09:29:53


Posted By: Senegalese
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:27am
Some people are just plain wrong!!!! $ A `d`peb -% `b "$ `b .%$% !%$$,% $,b %2


Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:40am
Originally Posted By: GlamorusStarr<@@.$& B ,$@@@
LOLLOLLOL This statement is sad but funny as hell. LOLLOL It's sad because it shouldn't have to be that way - especially on a board where women refer to themselves as "sisters". But it's also REALLY funny cuz I understand her desire to keep those she does business with at arms reach...or should I say within striking distance. LOL
 
BTW I love this little guy---->boxer
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Posted By: DonnaB63
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:43am
A simple member search of past posts by the OP will tell who the seller likely was.  If what the buyer says is true, it is a shame what happened to
her.  But members on BHM are suspect about the validity of her claim since she hasn't come back on to update us as to whether it's been resolved  - or to reveal who the seller is.  It couldn't possibly be that she's fed up and decided to just let it be or to pursue her own course of action.  It is easier to believe her story isn't true.  How judgemental...
 
As far as drama on BHM goes, I don't know why we are so surprised.  People will be rude and obnoxious up close and personal, why would they be any different with the anonymity of the internet to protect them.  It's a  no-holds-barred bonanza when no one knows who, what, and where you really are.   JMO
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Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:46am
I completely understand why someone would give the seller time to make amends before they put them on blast because if I were the buyer and they resolved the issue then I would not out them. BUT, if they are ignoring pm's, e-mails and whatnot I would definately put them on blast otherwise your secrecy allows them to do it over and over again. For all we know this seller could be the same one who sold a jacked up unit to FlyAt40.
 
I miss Fly Unhappy  She hasn't been around since someone sold her a jacked up unit and wouldn't refund her money. Has anybody heard from her ?
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Posted By: flawless1
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:47am

If the seller is who I think it is. I purchased one of the wigs that she had for sale also and besides it being to much hair for me the wig was just as she described. It was a smooth transaction!!

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Posted By: Asia35
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 10:51am

Well I have bought from several members. (Thank God) I also received my unit. I had a   mishap once the seller got a higher offer after I paid for the unit. But the ladies on bhm checked her. I received a refund and I made a note not to buy from her again. I guess the lord and his father know how I feel about my hard earn quarters.



Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 10:58am
well like i said the OP of the thread lives in my town, she told me about it and who it was long b4 she posted it on the board b/c she was upset.. and i know the seller is still posting on there so why didn't she step up know that its being mentioned in her defense, if you've done nothing wrong then you need to address it since its out there.. i've seen so much scamming that they;ve even used my name in the scam to make it sound legit only to find out they didn't ripped off at all just wanted folks to chip in and buy her a unit.. ..


Posted By: fllwlover
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 11:48am
I'm wondering that myself Sexi. If you stand by what you sent, then come on in & defend yourself. However, no names have actually been called so you never know...
 
Sure you can do a search but it is possible that she didn't leave a post & just PM'd directly to get her unit, so really the seller is still unknown. The tide unfortunately is changing though & now ppl are starting to question the OP about her own motives....
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Posted By: nola06
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 12:32pm
What I'd like to know is what former BHM member is throwing wig parties and charging people up-the-wazoo for instruction! !,! 


Posted By: kalenjin
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 12:45pm
And they threw Rex under the bus today Confused
...calling for a boycott..  i guess he has been late with delivery and wont answer emails. He refused to refund the money...not sure what the hell is going on


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 12:55pm
well i guess cuz they have no one to keep them informed that china in having a war right now maybe they are worried about other things..LOL poor rex getting blamed for a war...


Posted By: nola06
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:06pm
Originally Posted By: sexibeach4!d` ( $p$0! a``
 
...And, you're right. Good point.
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Posted By: bookbabe
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:06pm
SHE EDIT AND SAID HE'LL REFUND HER THE MONEY!!! QUESTION WHY WOULD THEY CALL A BOYCOTT?? THEY IN FACT HIGHLY RECOMMENDED HIM!!! DON'T THEY REALIZE THINGS HAPPEN??? IS IT WISE TO GET A CUSTOM RUSHED??
 
 
I HAVE 2 CUSTOMS ON THE WAY (28TH)!!! THEY'LL COME WHEN THEY COME AS LONG AS THEY ARE PERFECT! 
bookbabe2008-03-25 13:11:32


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:20pm
Originally Posted By: bookbabe<D@ #$`. ) `b "
 
let them do it, you know what its going to get them especially since they have no Vet's to tell them what happens when you do that? you get 3 wig min!!! you get cut off! that's what you'll get trying to make them do what you want to do.. and if there was a refund are they saying thru western union and she get's the wig too is that what your sayng?


Posted By: bookbabe
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:24pm
NO!! WIG SHE SAID HE'S GOING TO WU THE REFUND!!!


Posted By: bookbabe
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:28pm
REX IS TRYING TO DO SOME DAMAGE CONTROL BECAUSE I JUST GOT AN EMAIL SAYING MY UNITS WON'T BE HERE UNTIL THE 30TH!! I TOLD HIM TO TAKE HIS TIME AND DON'T FORGET ABOUT ME AND ALSO TELL HIS WORKERS TO MAKE SURE THEY BLEACH MY KNOTSteehee
 
 
bookbabe2008-03-25 13:29:23


Posted By: fllwlover
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:29pm

I'm no vet, but I sure have been trying....I don't know why you want to up & boycott Rex. I didn't read anything about that but I may have glazed over it.  He ALWAYS takes his time, but its good work.

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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:36pm
Originally Posted By: fllwlover<4@&, $b $%d ``
 
THEY ARE REALLY living a very sheltered life if they think they are any where close to making him any kind of real money their boyscott is min at most to their business.. rex'sbeen around long enough to have established his business.. the chinese vendor's make regular wigs, human hair wigs w/mono tops, lace fronts, toupee, hair wrefts, bulk hair, and sythenic wigs.. they make their most money out of BULK ORDERS FROM COMPANIES not individual orders at 200 per unit.. they will cut you off, and its been done b4..we sent OUT emails to all the vendors and they returned the favor with emails letting us know you NOW HAVE TO PURCHASE 3 MIN ORDERS, NO MORE INDIVIDUAL ORDERS..loL and if you say your from that board, they really don't want to deal with you.. they don't understand your addiction nor do they relate to you..
sexibeach2008-03-25 13:37:45


Posted By: ShowStoppers
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:42pm

Is it wrong I don



Posted By: ShowStoppers
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:43pm

If a local had purchased me a bad unit, I would have to windmill their Censored no lie



Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 1:44pm
[QUOTE=ShowStoppers]

Is it wrong I don



Posted By: fllwlover
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 2:12pm

I know Sexi, I know...<sigh> - I'm still a member there and there is a need. It's like the Blind leading the blind at some point.  

I just posted b/c, now, someone else emailed him stating that they were from the board about their unit & brought up this poor girl's situation.

Rex is gonna say bann  For sure! LOL You know they'll cut you off in a minute...

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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 2:16pm
Originally Posted By: fllwlover<4@ (&$b %`a @
 
WELL when you chat with him about your business you better act like you don't know them, you ain't never heard about them...LOLLOLLOL sometimes you need to draw a line in sand and look out for yourself..


Posted By: angierene
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 2:16pm
So I obviously need to stop lurking right. I've just been so hurt. I couldnt wait to get on, to read, laugh, etc. Now it's shameful. and to be honest, when sexi left I was really hurt. Not personally, but I didnt realize all the crap that was going on. And as mentioned in a PP, to call me a sister and treat me like trash does not a sister truly make.
whew--got that off my chest.
 
Sexi, I got my curly unit from your boy and you did not make a comment. I didnt know you were gone, I ignored that stupid post until the day I joined this board. I thought my hair was so jacked up cuz you didnt respond.  That goes to show how much I relied on BHM, terrible I know, but some stuff you gotta let go.
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 2:29pm
Originally Posted By: angierene# @ ,"4`.$!d` le
 
honey i'm so sorry you should have known something was up if i didn't respond, you should been asking some i've not been able to get in touch with that i talked too often, but i'm sorry i had to go but i'm here and if you need me you can find me...


Posted By: fllwlover
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 2:41pm
Originally Posted By: sexibeachT@%$`$0(````@
 
WELL when you chat with him about your business you better act like you don't know them, you ain't never heard about them...LOLLOLLOL sometimes you need to draw a line in sand and look out for yourself..
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I personally can't get down with Rex, he takes too long for my tastes. I use the same 2 vendors, really just 1 at this time, b/c he's really good to me. Some much so, he's asked for me to come visit him & he would pay! Embarrassed If he said anything to me about it, I'd be Confused BHN? Shocked You said DHN? You mean DHL? No? Cry Gee I'm sorry, I don't know what you're talking about....LOLLOLLOLBig%20smile
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 4:27pm
well one thing the newbies need to learn is NEVER settle your disputes on the board, non of those members are going to give you your money back.. support is great, but if you don't have your refund in your hand don't even go there.. someone that is loyal to rex, and he has many will tell on you.. i've seen it happen 100's of times, and then you might not get jack  its your money not anybody elses, and the only person that can refund your cash is the vendor you put on blast..


Posted By: BlainesGirl
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 8:45pm
I hadn't been to the other board in a while and I can tell you, "it's a jungle" over there! The drama is just to much. When I found out that you had left Sexi, that was enough for me! It's so nice to know you are still on point. Thank you for being the True DIVA you are. You are very much appreciated for all that you do to keep us up on our game. % @aa A ara %,."` ,$br $


Posted By: GlamorusStarr
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:02pm
HeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartSexi...do you see how appreciated you areHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeartHeart Thumbs%20Up


Posted By: chyna_li
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:20pm
um. interesting.  someone just commented on this exact topic on BHM ), SHa


Posted By: GlamorusStarr
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:27pm
Yeah...this thread is the reason for the thread over on BHM.....


Posted By: laydyl
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 9:55pm
I said this at BHM too, but to be perfectly honest, the snarky bickering is to the point where I almost don't want to visit either board.  But alas, I need as much wig info/help I can get.


Posted By: GlamorusStarr
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 10:03pm
Yeah...it's getting better now...Daymn Laydyl...It seems like I'm staking you huh? bigball&chain


Posted By: laydyl
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 10:24pm
Stalker alert, stalker alert!!!  Shocked

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Posted By: msteeniebaby
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 12:22am
You ladies are appreciated by me and Sexi I have learned so much from you.  Not just about lf or hair but about poise, confidence, intelligence, compassion and integrity.  Don't ever let anyone stop you from doing just what God put you here to do...to be of maximum service to God and another human being.  I personally think you are the BOMB! % Pied Dq @ ! 4 B` $2,"" .


Posted By: mslady
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 5:08am
Wow-- Be careful what you ask for.  Before long you will have the drama on this board.  I actually liked this board because it's more laidback atmosphere....no issues thus far.
mslady2008-03-26 06:46:18


Posted By: ruedeseine
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 1:52pm
Originally Posted By: sexibeach4!d` ,&$ $()`a ``

How does the vendor match the complaining poster with the order?


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 2:01pm
Originally Posted By: ruedeseineT@%0`0 da`hD$

How does the vendor match the complaining poster with the order?
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WELL we're gonna let this die, but if you've complained about something and someone tells them they ought to know based on what the complaint is..i've seen this done not just with CV's but also AV'S when i was a mod there, those vendors lurk and read it for themselves and would pm me and address the situation, i've even had them copy and paste the sales information to prove that the accusations they are being accused of isn't true or their side of the story, otherwise i wouldn't hide the thread b/c i didn't want to censor people's feelings.. sometimes i'd address it or tell the vendor to do so.. i've even had them pretty much stalk me b/c they don't want their business reputation ruin, and sometimes the members were truthful and there were sometimes the total story wasn't told and therefore the vendor shouldn't have been blasted or accused of anything wrong..
 
but we REALLY want to leave this alone and let this other board and their members resolve their own problems and i hope that they do..
sexibeach2008-03-26 14:12:07


Posted By: candygrl2467
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 2:41pm
can we lock the thread because people are going to want to defend/clarify themselves. I know theres a section on here for lost threads so can it be moved there.


Posted By: ruedeseine
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 2:41pm
okay...I just wanted to know. I wasn't going for a revival or anything.
You got way involved with all of that, it must've been time consuming.
thanks for the explanation.


Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 2:50pm
Originally Posted By: candygrl2467 !d &$ $b ( p`` The "Land of the lost threads" forum was created to squash another brand of drama that came up here last year.. I don't think she will move unrelated threads there..
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Posted By: LovelyLisa
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 2:53pm
Thanks for explaining Sexi!


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 2:56pm
why would we want too. this is our freedom of speech? and i mean we grown women, and its not like anybody was dogging anybody out this is a very civilized discussion on a couple of topics that have continually come up over and over again it ain't that serious and if folks wasn't lurking on either board they wouldn't know and if they TRULY understood the nature of the lf game it wouldn't be an issue but folks got to learn whether its here or there regardless...   I AM NOT CENSORING MYSELF BASED ON OTHER'S OPINIONS or another board its really moot.. nobody was pointing finger's at least i waSn't i'm still explaining the game rather people wanna know it our not. and i bet you one thang they ain't closing locking nothing for us.. honestly anybody that thinks this is some kind of beef doesn't understand that the majority of the women on this board and that one are close and have formed friendships that the name on the board ain't gonna change that.. and if someone didn't get along they didn't get along there and they won't get along here.. so that's life.. sexibeach2008-03-26 15:15:21


Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 3:19pm
Originally Posted By: sexibeach<"d`$ #$`$0) !``` This is very true.. LOLLOL

I will just say this.. It's one thing to bring INFORMATION from one forum to another.. However, I think back & forth he said she said drama between forums is pointless.. I also think that it is silly to attach a loyalty to one forum over another.. I belong to MANY forums (hair and otherwise).. This was the FIRST hair forum I joined.. I found BHM & HE101 through THIS forum, and while BHM is not perfect for me, I still enjoy (most days) being on ALL of the forums I belong to.. I will not draw a line in the sand and "choose a side".. I don't think anyone should..
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 3:24pm
let start by not continued to post in this thread, and call it a day but i'm not walking on nobody's egg shells b/c most of the people that are here are members there so i don't see where this back and forth is all about.. its got to be coming from some newer members there???


Posted By: Divavocals
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 3:27pm
Originally Posted By: sexibeach,!t "$!0p ) ``` So let me start by HIJACKING this thread.. Can a non-lacefront wearer contribute to your product list??Big%20smile I'm wearing a wig.. (one I made, not a lacefront) so does that let me in the club???LOLLOL
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Posted By: ash8419
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 3:29pm
Originally Posted By: sexibeach4!d` ,&$ $()`a ``
 
ClapClapClap Exactly Sexi!!! Even if you make the transaction through paypal it will NOT be covered unless its for an auction or for an item that is posted for sale on a website. If you are just transferring money to another person for a sale and the item is not listed with ebay, ioffer, etc paypal will not refund your money until money is deposited in to the sellers account. I lost $220 and learned the hard wayAngryAngryAngry!!!!
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Posted By: candygrl2467
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 3:47pm
Originally Posted By: sexibeach4 p &,%$` 0! a```

I dont know if that was in response to my question about locking it. I was told that locked threads were created over here for another purpose. My reason for asking that was because sexi you yourself said that we should let this drop so in the interest of letting it go I wanted to know if it could be locked but....since we are all free to speak our minds.... Here is mine

I have noticed a general atmosphere on this board that is too concerned with BHM. A couple members on here have this mindset like BHM is full of drama and were so much better to not have drama and have things on this boads be more civilized but at every chance they get members on here who are not members on there (and some who are) are constantly bringing up BHM in a negative light.  And on BHM I have not noticed 1 time when hair boutique was brought up in a negative light.

and some of the responses I was a little ticked off at on here because ladies were making general incorrect assumptions, like


Originally Posted By: kalenjin"d $(%0 ( d` @ 0  How was Rex thrown under the bus? I think that young lady was upset because she was given 5 different ready dates (months apart) for her rushed custom. She had every right to be upset. Its not the lateness that she minded it was the fact that she couldnt plan for what to do.


Originally Posted By: nola06T@%0`(( `@&
 
...And, you're right. Good point.
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hina isnt having a war....they're preparing for the Olympics...there are protests going on in like .05% of its country in terms of land mass, in Taiwan though.... which is nowhere near Qingdao (city), Shandong province where most of the hair factories are located.

Originally Posted By: BlainesGirl ``$,'4 !d `D 0
How is it a jungle over there?


Originally Posted By: DonnaB63< ``.,&$@$$ `@ 2

Ladies on BHM are suspect because this has happened many times before someone would come on saying how they were scammed by a member and get sympathy and everything and then people would send that member a unit or donate to help her get another unit and then it would turn out to be fake.... This has happened a few times. that is why there is suspicion. And when there are 12 units up for sale at around the time she bought here that makes finding out who sent here the bad unit really hard because she could have bought it via pm and no one would know. So without understanding the situations in the past makes it hard for you to understand the context in which the members are speaking. Being lied to...having your generosity taken advantage of many many times....

I'm just stating all of this because there seems to be an US v. THEM mentality going around. It should be noted that we share the same information. The information in the newbie thread was compiled over on BHM first. It was the members (Sexi and Breh included- that hair part trick was amazing) there who experimented with vendors and products first, and found out what worked and what didnt work. Take a look at the newbie thread on BHM its the same one here (but the one here is more updated some ladies at BHM have been trying to update it over there for awhile but ...). The information and questions and concerns are the same. So I think BHM deserves more credit than it is being given here. So everything that you are learning over here is in part due to BHM.

***I'm just stating my opinion. so if your going to respond to me please take the time to be respectful and mature in ur responses to me as I have been towards you***



candygrl24672008-03-26 15:50:52


Posted By: choclatey77
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 4:04pm
No need to point out peoples wrongs and rights  just let it be squashed. choclatey772008-03-26 16:12:56


Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 4:10pm
Originally Posted By: choclatey77"d ",! ,!` `da
 
EXACTLY!!! and there's no beef unless you make it one..
sexibeach2008-03-26 16:16:49


Posted By: Breh
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 4:18pm
Originally Posted By: choclatey77 # `$$$ `( da`d &

Please do!!! Clap
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Posted By: ShowStoppers
Date Posted: Mar 26, 2008 at 5:45pm
Speechless!


Posted By: msteeniebaby
Date Posted: Mar 31, 2008 at 3:14am
When I started this thread it sure wasn't intended to put anyone down or to start a "battle of the boards".  I just commented and I have a right to do that.  Sometimes, some folks wanna "preach" to others about their posts or their responses to posts.  What gives anyone the right to critisize someone else's words?  I visit BHM also and there are some great ladies over there.  There are also a lot of "newer" members and lots of opinions about lace fronts.  They are entitled to express their opinions and I ain't mad at 'em.  I believe that there are no big "I's" or little "You's" on either board so save your sermon for someone who cares. % Pied Dq @ ! 4 B` $2,"" .



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