I'm Gonna Address The BHM thread
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Topic: I'm Gonna Address The BHM thread
Posted By: sexibeach Subject: I'm Gonna Address The BHM thread Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 8:58am
since i refused to log onto BHM and address that thread over there about Where is Sexibeach? i'm doing to address it here.. I don
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Replies: 82 Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 8:58am
since i refused to log onto BHM and address that thread over there about Where is Sexibeach? i'm doing to address it here.. I don
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Posted By: soxgirl119
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 11:18am
Aww sexi, i know deep down you're appreciated by most of the women. You just have so much to share with us that it's not surprising that others are intimidated by that. You always handled yourself like a real lady should. Hold your head up, you've got my respect.
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Posted By: mujersexyc
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 11:29am
ITA alot of ppl took aim at u for varies reason and not the ADMM and they thought you were getting paid to take their bull and I guess now the ones that like to attack will have no one to attack but ADDM and he will see how it feels so they ALL made their beds hard and NOW they have to LAY in it.
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 11:33am
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exactlly!!
i enjoyed all the ladies and appreciated them regardless to differences, but i'm not trying to be pimped out..
thank soxgirl cuz you already know.. sexibeach2008-03-16 11:34:56
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Posted By: Samria
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 12:00pm
I appreciate you Sexibeach and I missed you... But I'm here NOW with ya!!!
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Posted By: laydyl
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 12:46pm
As a newbie to lace wigs, I definitely appreciated your input on BHM! Just the fact that you went out of your way to provide such a wealth of information, and at no cost to anyone (except your time), was so selfless and caring. You don't meet too many people like that in this world.
When I read you were gone, I immediately got sad because I had read all these threads about what a sweet person you are, but I myself never got a chance to talk with you or anything. So, and I said this in the other thread, but I'm grateful you sent me the link to this board because I really do enjoy hearing your input...not only as a lace wig veteran but as a sweet woman.
I'm still at BHM simply because I'm too new at this lace wig game to cut myself off from any source of information. But at least I (and other newbies) now know to be very careful what we say at that board. We know not to put our hearts out there and keep our postings strictly business.
I'm glad you cut the negative energy out of your life, Sexi. Life is too short and too precious to spend it caught up in the midst of drama.
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 1:21pm
thank you ladies, its more but i'm not going to air dirty laundry on here or there but i don't like how things are, b/c they are not what they appear.. so people can say what they want too, b/c they really don't know the truth behind the scenes over there.. nuff said..
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Posted By: FLMDiva
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 2:02pm
Sexi, i got your back. you are the greatest person i ever met and don't you change a thing about yourself. Me and Prez Obama got you girl!( - @i hat bd % (,b %"( ` (!! $-,% $- -$"" ..
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 2:18pm
thank you honey.. one of the things i didn't realize was something that Celie taught me, and maybe i should share it in this thread, its how you cause others to prosper whether you know it or not..so sometimes you need to make a decision..
one of the other boards is a business and customer affairs and sometimes member (customers) communications can be so egregiously ignored and marginalized. The backbone of the medium for that business are the stats, i.e., how many members, visits and posts are made on the site. Advertiser fees to that site are formularized from those numbers. It
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Posted By: DonnaB63
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 2:35pm
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thank you honey.. one of the things i didn't realize was something that Celie taught me, and maybe i should share it in this thread, its how you cause others to prosper whether you know it or not..so sometimes you need to make a decision..
one of the other boards is a business and customer affairs and sometimes member (customers) communications can be so egregiously ignored and marginalized. The backbone of the medium for that business are the stats, i.e., how many members, visits and posts are made on the site. Advertiser fees to that site are formularized from those numbers. It$ ! A`a `d `a !-20b` !2, r "0 %!!! $% $! , r $
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 2:38pm
ok? now your seeing the big picture everytime i posted a tip or a product it popped up on google adds..thats why i'm saying if you can't appreciate members/me then don't expect me to be pimped.. sexibeach2008-03-16 14:40:21
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Posted By: DonnaB63
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 2:55pm
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 2:57pm
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ok i would be, and i was pimped for tips and i didn't even get a tip..
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Posted By: Miss Lace
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 2:59pm
He Sexi, i am glad that i find you back. I hope to learn a lot more from you. I appreciate you and a lot of other girls do too. Look how active you are on the site. I don
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:01pm
[QUOTE=Miss Lace]He Sexi, i am glad that i find you back. I hope to learn a lot more from you. I appreciate you and a lot of other girls do too. Look how active you are on the site. I don
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Posted By: Breh
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:03pm
I noticed that as well. As soon as you mentioned something, then it would appear in a google ad not to long after that. You know I love you and appreciate you, you're my girl. ! % A`gn dere $ $`` #4 `` #(!,, -! % , b .
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Posted By: Miss Lace
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:08pm
Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:11pm
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i noticed that the first time i posted about MTG coming out with a human version called sulu hair.. and i couldn't believe that he would purchase advertising from them that quick, cuz it was brand new off the block, there's no way he could have done that..well now i know..
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Posted By: Miss Lace
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:11pm
Breh i am glad to see you here too. Your input on BHM is also great
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:13pm
[QUOTE=Miss Lace]I really appreciate you Sexi. I know the first time i could post a topic about my lf question. You immediately send me a pm with my answer. Your input on that BHM was amazing. I hope to learn so much more from you. I don
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Posted By: Miss Lace
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:18pm
That's what i don't understand. You do something and they don't pay you, but they have al lot of sh+t to say. We should be glad that there are people like you and other girls that freely want to share their skills with us (newbies). Why people always have to hate?
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Posted By: Shonita24
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:23pm
To all my BHM refugees, you guys are the best. Sexi your input into my new lace wig venture has been such a blessing to me. Just in reading the thread over at BHM just made my stomach turn because you can just see the cattiness and drama still going on. This forum is so laid back but extremely helpful. Even though I do not know any of you personally, I consider you my sisters, truly (our common interest has brought us together)! I pray that this forum does not turn into drama central (smile). Love you guys and Sexi, keep doing what your doing, you have touch so many women with your large knowledge base and always remember that! (% agladd` (-60 p % 4`b $(%) ! %, %,)%4` ($
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:38pm
thanks ladies i'm always gonna take the high road, i've done all i can do and you can't please everybody.. what they gonna do when he shuts it down again, cuz supposely its going to be new and improved.. but if you still got all the fighting and cussing, its will still be what it is.. and like i said that was only minor i dealt with the blows and kept on stepping cuz i ain't gonna let nobody bless my blessings..
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Posted By: Miss Lace
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 3:42pm
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ITA and love you too sis
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Posted By: ash8419
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 4:06pm
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That's exactly what I was thinking...what is he gonna do after the upgrade???? Oh well I guess he would have a lot of ignorance on the board rather than peace and intelligence. Sexi at BHM you always took the high road no matter what people said or did on the board and I figured if that is how you are on the board then you must be that way in your own personal life outside cyberspace. Don't know what you got until its gone... $- P cn`dp0% 00BB .(4`p /.-%- % !,$-$)),bb /
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Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 4:22pm
SexiB you already know that we appreciated your hair tips BUT what I admired most is how you always took the high road and kept it classy. I admired the fact that I never saw you lower yourself to calling any names or making personal attacks on other members who were not exactly nice to you at the time. THAT is true class and it's a big reason so many people admire you.0- "(!0 $ .<@` %$ `` %2 ,%!$%$ %)4` ($
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 4:25pm
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i apprediate that but don't think i didn't want too sometimes..
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Posted By: shefruitful
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 4:26pm
Thank you Sexi for all of your contributions and thoughtfulness. I was a newbie at BHM and everytime I would send you a PM, you always responded with helpful tips and information. I appreciate all you have done and I pray may God continue to bless and keep you for only he can.
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Posted By: Curlygirl11
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 4:31pm
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i apprediate that but don't think i didn't want too sometimes.. [/QUOTE]
Oh, I KNOW you wanted to because thats only human. But that's exactly what made it so admirable because it's HARD to exercise that type of restraint when you really want to put somebody in check. 0- "(!0 $ .<@` %$ `` %2 ,%!$%$ %)4` ($
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Posted By: missmodesty
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 5:43pm
Sexi you are the reason why i started wearing lace fronts,when i discovered BHM you were the one where i got all my information from,i spent nights reading your threads and i didnt event realized how many pages i was reading.
Be blessed and thank you for all the information you freely give to us.
when things like what they did to you over there happen,all i can say is be happy thats mean you truly are special and nobody can do what you've done. keep on moving,we love u and will always be supportive and be there for ya.
kisses and hug
missmodesty2008-03-16 17:44:23
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 6:23pm
well i appreciate that ya tend to know me b/c i'm getting the impression that someone is saying i have sour grapes? and why would i, i mean really? for what reason, and why would my personality change all of a sudden to have sour grapes.. i just served my time as a mod and now i'm done and owe that administration nothing but thanks for the opportunity it was great while it lasted...
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Posted By: ChildofGod
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 6:59pm
As a newbie, I lurked around the BMH board, but never joined. You gave great info on the board, sexi, and I found you by doing a goggle search! Thank you so very much for all of your priceless info on lf's.!$% hgd abd )% 0`` , ,bp "$ (%$%%$( !-,$$`b ..
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Posted By: sexibeach
Date Posted: Mar 16, 2008 at 7:00pm
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