WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU WANT TO IN A WIFE??
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Topic: WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU WANT TO IN A WIFE??
Posted By: BIGGMike Subject: WHAT QUALITIES DO YOU WANT TO IN A WIFE?? Date Posted: Jan 6, 2006 at 12:33pm
1. HAVE A FATHER AND A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM!
2. KNOW HOW TO RESPECT THEIR OWN AFRICAN AMERICAN CULTURE
3. KNOW THAT WHITE PEOPLE USE THEM TO DEGRADE BLACK MEN
4. DON'T COMPETE WITH ME OR BE COMBATIVE
5. UNDERSTAND THAT BLACK MEN ARE DISCRIMINATED AGAINST NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY TRY.
6. KNOW THAT THEY HAVE MANY ROLE MODELS AND A LONG HISTORY OF FAVORTISM BY WHITE IDEOLOGY OVER BLACK MEN.
7. A WOMAN THAT IS NATURAL (NO WEAVE OR FAKENESS PERIOD!)
8. KNOW HOW TO COOK HEALTHY FOOD BIGGMike38728.4174189815
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Replies: 19 Posted By: BIGGMike
Date Posted: Jan 6, 2006 at 12:33pm
1. HAVE A FATHER AND A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM!
2. KNOW HOW TO RESPECT THEIR OWN AFRICAN AMERICAN CULTURE
3. KNOW THAT WHITE PEOPLE USE THEM TO DEGRADE BLACK MEN
4. DON'T COMPETE WITH ME OR BE COMBATIVE
5. UNDERSTAND THAT BLACK MEN ARE DISCRIMINATED AGAINST NO MATTER HOW HARD THEY TRY.
6. KNOW THAT THEY HAVE MANY ROLE MODELS AND A LONG HISTORY OF FAVORTISM BY WHITE IDEOLOGY OVER BLACK MEN.
7. A WOMAN THAT IS NATURAL (NO WEAVE OR FAKENESS PERIOD!)
8. KNOW HOW TO COOK HEALTHY FOOD BIGGMike38728.4174189815!-) Pi d`d ra %! b` +$$` /4 %)%! -, $(% `r *$
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Posted By: THECHOSEN1
Date Posted: Jan 6, 2006 at 1:23pm
do u want to know wha we look for in a wife or just things relationg to black history ect
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Posted By: BIGGMike
Date Posted: Jan 6, 2006 at 2:07pm
It's 2006 a New Year. Do you want the same qualities that black women had in the past 10-15 years considering the high divorce rate and selling out of the Black Man for government checks or do you want them to be different.
(Think about all the problems our children have because of our mothers and their behaviors, putting careers over family, putting down our father constantly, not telling the truth about their relationship with our father, having no pride in Black Men, letting daycare raise their children instead of them, spending childsupport checks on weave and hair styles, the list goes on for these independent mothers who claim to care so much)
What qualities do you want in a wife considering the history of Black Women???? Karen Shelton38727.7107175926!-) Pi d`d ra %! b` +$$` /4 %)%! -, $(% `r *$
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Posted By: lilkeke918
Date Posted: Jan 6, 2006 at 5:33pm
1. She has to be smart and know about different cultures (whether she be black, white, asian, or latin)
2. Know how to cook (I can burn but this wouldn't hurt)
3. Nice body (In shape)
4. Speaks her mind (I hate when women are submissive)
5. Be spritual
6. Be independant (Be able to hold down a job on her own)
7. Has goals in life
8. Takes care of herself (hygiene and style wise )
9. Treats me with the same respect I give her. I believe they are queens and should be treated like one, but if I feel as though you cant respect me 2 begin with it wont work out. ! ! Icdad pa , " `r !2$ b #4 -,$!
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Posted By: baller05
Date Posted: Jan 7, 2006 at 9:09pm
well mike im a college studen right now sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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Posted By: lilkeke918
Date Posted: Jan 8, 2006 at 11:49am
I mean im in high school so I think he's talking bout what kind of chick would u settle down with. In the future! ! Icdad pa , " `r !2$ b #4 -,$!
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Posted By: Sistaslick
Date Posted: Jan 8, 2006 at 1:29pm
lilkeke you are in HS? wow! You really have your head on straight and seem to be a very intelligent, mature young man. You won't have any problem finding the wifey of your dreams. Ha! I thought you were around my age (21) |
Posted By: lilkeke918
Date Posted: Jan 8, 2006 at 3:19pm
Naa i just turned 17 a couple of months. Yea a lot of people think im older than i am bc i dont act or talk like most 17 years olds. ! ! Icdad pa , " `r !2$ b #4 -,$!
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Posted By: Sistaslick
Date Posted: Jan 8, 2006 at 9:04pm
I didn't either. and shoot I don't now |
Posted By: BIGGMike
Date Posted: Jan 9, 2006 at 10:57am
,!d`$(% P(0 ``` a*
Notice his head is on straight when he says things that sound Eurocentric.
Notice his AGE (Have anyone notice how there has been a rash of issues with older women and young fatherless males? They molest them because they have not been taught anything YET, then they get pregnant by them).
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Posted By: BIGGMike
Date Posted: Jan 9, 2006 at 11:07am
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He is not going to have a problem because the competition is for MEN not for Women. Women are a dime a dozen. He can take his time and pick the BEST ONE for him.
So no matter what his views is, he will still find a wifey, they are everywhere. FACT!
The hard part is will wifey change, get fat, stop cooking, stop respecting him, start listening to her friends, put MONEY over family, and start following white people around like a puppy instead of being the African Queen that we all know she can be. Karen Shelton38727.7110300926!-) Pi d`d ra %! b` +$$` /4 %)%! -, $(% `r *$
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Posted By: BIGGMike
Date Posted: Jan 9, 2006 at 11:16am
THE PRESS
Study finds girls molest young boys
THE PRESS, NZ, By TIM HUME, July 1, 2004
Researchers into sexual abuse by girls say female sexual offending is chronically under-reported and specialised rehabilitation programmes are urgently needed.
Findings released yesterday from New Zealand's first study into adolescent female sexual offending reported a "culture of denial" about female sexual offending, which allowed adolescent female abusers to molest young, usually male, victims without repercussion.
If not rehabilitated, female abusers would most likely continue to offend and eventually pose a threat to their own children.
The survey of 400 health, mental health and related professionals identified eight young women in Christchurch currently aged between 12 and 19 who had sexually abused. It identified other female abusers older than 19, who were excluded from the results.
Lead researcher Nikki Evans, from the University of Canterbury's social work department, said there was "an enormous amount of minimisation" surrounding sexual abuse by females, which meant it was usually not reported by victims, families or health professionals.
"People find it really difficult to perceive young women engaging in sexually abusive behaviours; it goes against the idea of women as nurturers," she said.
Research showed many people, including mental health professionals, perceived female sexual offending as not abusive or harmful.
"If a young girl abuses a 12-year-old boy it's seen as an initiation and a positive thing, rather than something traumatic," Evans said.
Researcher Don Mortensen, manager of the STOP Trust, which runs rehabilitation programmes for adult, adolescent and child sexual abusers, said society had been slow to acknowledge that sexual abuse by females was equally as destructive as that perpetrated by men.
STOP commissioned the research as a feasibility study into establishing the country's first rehabilitation programme for adolescent female abusers.
In nearly all of the eight Christchurch cases, the girls' victims were well known to them. Most were siblings or foster siblings. Peers at school and other neighbourhood children they were babysitting were also abused.
"They're abusing within the context of a relationship. We know that sort of abuse is the most difficult context (for the victim)," Evans said.
Their victims were always younger, and typically male. Three abused children aged between one and five years old.
The number of victims for each girl ranged between one and five, although Evans said the true numbers may be higher due to under-reporting.
The girls' average age was now 16 but several had been pre-teens when they started abusing.
None were reported to the youth justice system or referred to specialist treatment programmes.
"That suggests their offending was not prioritised, which reflects the general view in the community," Evans said.
There was a pressing need to treat adolescent female offenders because females who had been sexually abused were more likely to become teenage mothers, she said. Karen Shelton38727.7100694444!-) Pi d`d ra %! b` +$$` /4 %)%! -, $(% `r *$
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Posted By: BIGGMike
Date Posted: Jan 9, 2006 at 11:26am
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Good answer! Go to school and skip the females. They are a dime a dozen.
Get an education and learn what makes a good wife for you first. HIGHSCHOOL DOES NOT TEACH YOU ANYTHING ABOUT A WIFE.
Go to college and SEE what women are being taught. SEE that it is total MALE BASHING FOOLISHNESS.
Don't let some female tell you what's good for YOU. They don't know JACK about Black MEN because they live in a DIFFERENT WORLD THAN us Black MEN. Karen Shelton38727.7113425926!-) Pi d`d ra %! b` +$$` /4 %)%! -, $(% `r *$
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Posted By: Sistaslick
Date Posted: Jan 9, 2006 at 11:40am
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