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Before you do anything!!!

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Forum Name: Cosmetic Surgery
Forum Description: Botox to brow lifts, lasers to lippo. Share your scoops.
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Printed Date: Dec 26, 2024 at 9:10am

Topic: Before you do anything!!!

Posted By: Wild Rose
Subject: Before you do anything!!!
Date Posted: Mar 7, 2004 at 6:47pm

This was a survey taken bye over 5000 guys in the United States!!! It went like this

What is the one thing you hate most that women change!!!

87%- hated when women got surgery to make there breasts bigger
6%- hated when women changed themselves to impress them
4%- hated when women got nose jobs or other plastic surgery
2%- hated when women changed there name

So girls before you go under the knife think about it, guys aren't complicated!!! And our flaws are often the things that make us special in a guys perspective!!! So keep what God gave you!!! don't change a thing!!! Your perfest the way you are, and someone will fall in love with exactly that!!!

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~*Rose*~

~Beauty rules are meant to be broken, and put back together in your own way~

Replies: 32

Posted By: Wild Rose
Date Posted: Mar 7, 2004 at 6:47pm

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Posted By: Hal
Date Posted: Mar 8, 2004 at 10:16am

I think I would need to see a link to this study before I believe you could get 87% of guys to say they dislike bigger boobs! Men are ALL visual!

Posted By: Kuroneko
Date Posted: Mar 8, 2004 at 11:36pm

Maybe they were thinking about their own gfs? Men can be very jealous, so a lot of them are afraid if their gfs or wives get implants, they'll attract too much attention from/have affairs with other men.! % Aaebade d !, ` . 4``

Posted By: demodoll
Date Posted: Mar 9, 2004 at 7:53pm

I think they might enjoy looking at the fake ones on someone else's girlfriend or wife but they don't necessarily want those in real life. My husband certainly enjoys a look here and there but he definitely doesn't want me to get that sort of enhancement. I am working on him for liposuction though and he doesn't have any big objections there. $ S bd`ter - ,,bb - 0b` /4! $(!, $- $%%, ` "6

Posted By: duke
Date Posted: Mar 12, 2004 at 8:03am

Watch it Demodoll - people have died of liposuction.

Posted By: Hal
Date Posted: Mar 12, 2004 at 10:11am

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People have died having sex too....

Posted By: Wild Rose
Date Posted: Mar 12, 2004 at 10:25am

I actually cant give you the link cuz I wrote it out of a magazine @ the doctors office a couple years ago!!! And its actually true, guys say sure that they like big boobs, but getting surgery still freaks them out!!! Actuallyit freaks me out too!!!
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Posted By: sexkitten912
Date Posted: Mar 28, 2004 at 7:30am

not all women have it just to impress guys it makes them feel happier and more confident !)% Aa fadd -)2 `r ",b` "%$ !%( , ,)! `r .

Posted By: Debbie
Date Posted: Apr 28, 2004 at 1:23pm

Hal wrote that people have died from having sex. Hal, people that die from having sex die with a smile on their face! LOL! Debbie

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Posted By: sumbunnysfunnyhair
Date Posted: Oct 19, 2004 at 4:20am

I use to work for a plastic surgeon.
I can only say this.

Do not mess with Mother nature, and what God gave you, love yourself for you!

Do not put plastic or silicone in your body , sooner or later your body will reject it, or you will need more and more plastic surgery.

It harms your immune system.
Stay Healthy, and stay you!

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Posted By: Hal
Date Posted: Oct 19, 2004 at 7:10am

Sunny, odd you feel this strong about this issue yet you help people do it?

Posted By: deltagirl12345
Date Posted: Oct 20, 2004 at 11:25am

I am very happy with what I have. I have never asked my boy friend to get a penis enlargment.

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Posted By: darthmom
Date Posted: Jan 27, 2005 at 11:10am

Who gives a **** what the men think? I didn't get my boobs for my man. Mine didn't want me to do it.

Guess what? Did it anyway. I did it because I wanted it done. Nursing for over a year made them flat and terrible looking, couldn't wear the same clothes I used to.

If someone is getting plastic surgery because of what others' think, they need to rethink THAT first.

Posted By: Kalika
Date Posted: Jan 30, 2005 at 11:08pm

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if your doing it for a guy in the first place, you have issues. why are so women so against surgery? get over yourselves, you have no right to tell someone else what to do with their bodies.

Posted By: jasmine2g3
Date Posted: Mar 25, 2005 at 2:54pm

They aren't telling them what to do ..they're being concerned about their "friends" by giving then the truth. A real "friend" wouldn't let someone risk their life for an image.

Posted By: Kalika
Date Posted: Mar 31, 2005 at 6:41am

Most people getting these procedures done arnt doing it for the men. so if they're helping their "friends" - then they're giving the wrong info

Posted By: Gina E
Date Posted: Apr 3, 2005 at 3:51am

I'll chime in here...hope I don't piss anyone off real good!

Love yourself...do what makes you happy...live your life...learn through experience!

And...I don't see too many friends advising eachother to put the Big Mac down, stop smoking, or...fill in your own blank________!

"I work at pleasin' me 'cause I can't please you, and that's why I do what I do" -Erykah Badu

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Posted By: kateadreena
Date Posted: Apr 15, 2005 at 2:00pm

If i got plastic surgery, i would get it for MYSELF, bacuse i wanted to make MYSELF feel better. Men would not come into the equasion!

Posted By: julesyjul88
Date Posted: Sep 21, 2006 at 1:48am

I actually know alot of guys who think breast implants DONT look good as well! My husband calls them water balloons.

I think people should do what makes them happy,but shouldnt do it for a man.Not all men care for them. Natural breasts are becoming a much bigger deal with magazines like perfect 10.

And I do agree with be happy with what GOD gave you. Breast implants are still not completely safe and carry many risks.many need to be replaced with 5-10 years.

Posted By: leducred
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 7:43am

Breast implants get replaced every 10-15years.

Not all men like them oh well. Not all men do i like either.

Not all breast implant surgeries make you look like you have water balloons. its how you go *under/over the muscle, where its put in(belly button, arm pit, under the breast, its how big you want to go(if you have the skin etc).

Pam Anderson now is extreme, where Brittney spears(if she got them)looks better. Tori spelling looks AWFUL. I dont tell people i have them its none of their business. iF i do tell people they are completely shocked and ask me to show them off!

I didnt nurse w/having my twins but i do know that having the boys helped the implants settle into place better.

Posted By: julesyjul88
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 1:07pm

Some people do look very good with them. My one aunt's are are so natural looking you'd never know and she's ahd hers for like,15 years now. I do know quite a few people whose look too much like basketballs though.

I liked the tear-drop shaped ones,but when my sister went to get hers the surgeon told her they have more problems and so she got the round ones. I'm not even sure they do the tear-droped ones anymore~but if anyone has them I'd love to hear some more infomation on those.

Posted By: leducred
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 2:02pm

i want to try the teardrop ones next surgery(in 3yrs). but if htey have more problems then im opted to stay with the 'try and true' ones i have.

alot of women dont do what htey are sopose to after, massage them or they go so big and not enough skin so they the implant are sssttttrrreeetttccchhheeddd like that then they look like cantalopes

Posted By: julesyjul88
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 2:32pm

Yeah,really flat people shouldnt get them that big cuz it looks gross when the skin is all stretched like that.

Posted By: leducred
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 3:06pm

yup i agree.

i was barely an A cup but i am a full c/ small d and it looks proporiate - i am broad shouldered. but i can probabyly name 10 celebs that went too big for hteir frame

Posted By: julesyjul88
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 3:51pm

I used to be like a double A,LOL. For some reason mine got bigger as I near my thirties and are now a very small C. I'd like them to be perkier though~I remember a while back they had something called "the permante bra" but I think they have stopped doing it.

I think Tara Reid's look kinda bad. Maybe a little lopsided. Anyone know if Jessica Simpson's are real? She says they are,but if you look at her when she first started she had nothing.

Posted By: leducred
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 4:41pm

i know hers are fake. (jessicas)-

i have a good source.

Posted By: julesyjul88
Date Posted: Sep 26, 2006 at 11:52pm

I figured they were,but they look pretty good.

Posted By: leducred
Date Posted: Sep 27, 2006 at 11:49am

hers are great honestly.

Posted By: Vampyfox
Date Posted: Mar 28, 2007 at 4:53pm

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This survey is true! Men much prefer REAL breasts. Large breasts are hard to ignore, but the shape is so obviously false, and not as nice as real breasts, even the small ones. The top of the cleavage ALWAYS has a gap with implants. So there is no proper cleavage when the breasts are not pressed together tightly. These breasts also hang differently, like two balls. It is not as nice looking as real breasts, although sagging real ones are not too impressive either. Not to mention the tell-tale dents, that, if not there after the surgery, soon happen over time.

I have come across many surveys, and also in my own experience in show-business, (I am a performer, previously a model, all natural assets,) have found men not to be enamoured with artificial breasts. After all, any man can have his own breasts, if he got implants!

Women, no matter if they are small or not, can look damn sexy depending on what they wear. A shapely body, with firm breasts of any size, and a lovely face with great hair, is always going to be a winner above abnormally large breasts. And, the girl is always going to look more sophisticated.

I know, as my large natural, firm breasts, make me look like a porn star because I love to wear tight clothes. Indeed, I have to, so that my small waist and hips can be seen, or I would look huge all over! Ugh!

I really wish women did not torture themselves. Natural, of ALL sizes is best! Concentrate more on all over shape. Regular trips to the gym does it everytime. Especially, when started young.
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Posted By: julesyjul88
Date Posted: Mar 28, 2007 at 5:18pm

Well,you werent kidding~Your breasts are huge! LOL...even though mine are smaller to average,I tend to agree with what you've posted. I know quite a few people with boob jobs and the guys arent impressed.
I used to want breast implants,but have come to love my body for how it is...why not,my husband has no complaints?

Posted By: Vampyfox
Date Posted: Mar 29, 2007 at 8:54am

I laughed out loud when I read your post in response to mine Jules! I guess I must be used to my boobs, but I wouldn't call them huge! I think boobs can look ugly if too big. I measure 41" around, sometimes 42" depending on any weight gains. And take a 36E bra. I hear the HUGE girls (implants) can be much more massive than that. I have considered having some taken off, as they get in the way a bit, but that op is not always successful. Lopsidedness, is one of the main problems. But, I keep them firm.

I think smaller boobs are just as good as any other kind (natural). Variation in body shapes, are always better and interesting, and if everyone looked the same with large breasts, it would be the norm to want smaller ones. It must be getting boring for men to hanker after large breasted women, only to find they are false. No matter how natural they may look in clothes, they do not ever, when exposed.

I'm pleased you have become satisfied with your breasts, and especially as your husband is happy about it too. False men like false breasts. Like Hugh Hefner, who insists his girlfriends have implants. Yuck! What a weird man! I hope this trend will change, as it will make young girls and very slim girls, so much happier with themselves. And, so they should be!

And, as for thinking they are not women enough! How many men have huge shoulders, v-shaped backs, and large pecs! Not to mention the big biceps! (My man has, incidentally) And, those men do not think themselves less of men. Men come in all shapes, and so should women. It's the hype and way the media conducts itself that make some women feel as if they lack what it takes. I have known many men who told me they prefer small breasts to large ones, natural or not. It's just that they feel they have to agree with the hype so they can appear to be 'real' men who have these raging hormones! The kind real women hate actually!
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Posted By: julesyjul88
Date Posted: Mar 29, 2007 at 5:18pm

"And, as for thinking they are not women enough! How many men have huge shoulders, v-shaped backs, and large pecs! Not to mention the big biceps! (My man has, incidentally) And, those men do not think themselves less of men. Men come in all shapes, and so should women."
This is so true!

"It's just that they feel they have to agree with the hype so they can appear to be 'real' men who have these raging hormones! The kind real women hate actually!"
Also true,I hate guys who ogle women and look at them only for their bodies and fake boobs. Not the kind of guy I'd want to be with at all,much less cared what they thought.

I wouldnt change a thing about your breasts if i were you. They are quite lovely (sorry if that sounds gay,LOL) unless they bother you of course.

Posted By: Vampyfox
Date Posted: Mar 29, 2007 at 8:50pm

Thanks for the compliment Jules, nice of you to say so! And, I have no intention of having any kind of surgery. As for our opinions above, on this whole topic, I'm not sure many people would admit they agree with us! (But, I bet they do!) !- Bi` `p % %4(br $0bb -$ , -,()! 4`b .

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