waves

actually its pretty hard for me to get waves. Im sort of multiracial im not mixed but you know how that is anywayz my hair is straight and a little curly but if i use wave griz my hair just slicks to my head and i cant use it really it damages my hair so i stopped now my hair texture is back to normal i use pink oil and you can see the curls in my hair but its mostly straight i dont have nappy or bee bee hair someone help me out. i use pantene prov to wash my hair and once a month i use a deep conditioner. I think people with nappy hair have a better chance of getting waves :\