I NEED HELP WITH ROUGH FRIZY HAIR T_____T

I have this rough thick and frizzy hair and I really hate it...my brother has the thin soft hair that I really want.

My hair is a thick and frizzy..like there is alot of idviduals hairs that kinda stick out a little giving it a really messed up look...and it's kinda curly but I'd like straighter hair...something wierd is that my hair is easily messed up...if I took my hand and rubb my hair around for 3 seconds it will look like a poof ball and stay that way...or if I take off my shirt...which rubs against it and messes it up too T____T
I really want soft thin straight...hair ..

If anyone can help plz reply..I would be really gratful ^____^ *hopeful look*

It is really boring to have this kind of hair.Fortunately, my hair is thin and straight naturally.You can use some products to improve your hair.

LOL, I feel your pain. But do not despair, there are remedies to your situation. You can do a re-texturizing treatment, like Rusk Radical Anti-curl. It is a thio-based re-texturizer. As the name implies, it changes the texture of your hair, without necesarily giving it that stick rough look that a regular relaxer would. What it does is it gives your hair a smoother, softer texture. If it is curly, it will make the curls looser, softer and ALOT less frizzie. After blow drying, the hair will look totally straight and shiny. I recomend getting it done by a proffesional, as there is more to chemical treatments than people think, and if you don't know the intricate details, you might end up with damaged hair. So look into it and find a good salon that offers the service. Do not get the brazilian keratin treatment. It is really bad for your hair and health.