Why me!!! NO!!!!

Ya'll know I have been so excited because I was opening my own business and this is my dream. It is not like I woke up one day and said I wanted to do this. I stumbled upon BHM in late 2005, and researched lace wigs for a long time, lurked, and read until my eyes were blood shot. I joined in 2006, and started wearing them in 2007. I have always had a passion for hair, how to take care of it, how it grows,the latest trends, etc... I have had this feeling tugging at my heart for a long time, and I prayed about it and it wouldn't let me go so I decided to go for what I wanted. I have a passion for it and I love how wearing lace wigs makes me feel so I know they make others feel great as well. So today I finally got my stocks, and Lord have mercy the hairline is not like the picture I sent. They are hairline disfunctionally challenged. I don't know what happened. The ones before were perfect, and these looked like they stepped out of a Count Dracula cartoon . I'm talking about some widows peaks out of this world.  I literally balled. I cried like a baby. I can't believe this. Why when you think things are going to be great they just turn into a big pile of Do-Do. I can't and won't sell these wigs looking like this. I have a reputation to uphold. I will not sell anything to someone that I wouldn't wear myself. That is just not right. So I am trying to contact my vendor because I need them all remade and pronto, and I'm not talking about 1 or 2 wigs. To make things worse, they were beautiful other than that. Breh2008-03-28 21:06:10

Hey Diva,

Breh calm down, tears will only make them look worst.  Take all the steps to resolve this situation. Contact the vendor and you too work it out.  This could be the work of a new employee and  he/she doesn't know how important this is to you. Keep Calm it will work out.   Praying helps too. 

Thanks Griff, but girl I don't even have any liquor or tylenol pm here. 

Hey Breh,

[QUOTE=Asia35]Breh calm down, tears will only make them look worst.  Take all the steps to resolve this situation. Contact the vendor and you too work it out.  This could be the work of a new employee and  he/she doesn't know how important this is to you. Keep Calm it will work out.   Praying helps too.  [/QUOTE]

Breh gal, Listen dont cry! Take it as a blessing in disguise! Gods timing is perfect. Theres a time to cry and time to rejoice, time to sow and time to reap......bottom line be thankful without season....will pm you

^^^Exactly...Trust in HIS timing....as I typed that I had to take a deep breath myself and truly take that in...So it is written, So it shall be done.

[QUOTE=MsLiberty]Hey Breh, [/QUOTE]

Aw, thank you ladies. Ya'll just don't know how good it feels to be around such supportive women. I am standing in agreement that everything will be okay and God has it under control.

Breh  Just as passionate  as you are on this day .. I want you too be More Passionate on YOUR DAY.  I see it as this was not the day, But Wait Because Your day is coming..Everything  will  line up, everything  will  fall in to place, all for BREH now that's BREH's day. Asia352008-03-28 21:37:00

Nothing but the enemy... Girl, brush it off and laugh in his face. THE DEVIL IS A LIE!

Just wanted to say, I UNDERSTAND. But don't worry, I've seen you around  & you've been putting in a lot of work. Sometimes these set backs are God's way of putting the brakes on for you to catch your breath. 

Hey mama, it's stressful now, as it always is in the beginning.

Thanks ladies. I am in the process of working it out with my vendor. I will keep you all updated. Thank you all for you kind words and encouragement. I guess I just wanted everything to be perfect, but I know that God answer prayers and I just left it in his hands.

You will be fine. I think they get overwhelmed. when you place bulk orders they just treat it like its someone reselling who doesnt know what the LF is all about. You will live and they will learn becoz next fall when breh is back ordered  they will move china here to get it done

Aww Breh it will be alright. You sound lik me- I'm a senior Chemistry/Pre-Med major, mother, and scientific researcher- and wife (I almost forgot that) on the go 24/7. Don't worry, just slow down, breathe and let God put it all together. When you think it's all out of control that when you experience your miracle and see just how things work out when you leave it alone. I bet when your units come back they will be the baddest around (in a good way of course). Take care Miss B (for busy)!

I'm so sorry to hear the issues with your stock units, Breh!  Keep the faith and everything will work out.  I visited your website yesterday and was wondering why the opening date changed.  This makes complete sense now.  You are a great individual to refuse to sell the product you received.  Other vendors would probably try to sell it anyway.  That separates you from the bad.  Class Act!!  Keep your head up and you will probably be sold out the first of your opening anyway.

Sorry for your problems Breh. I have experienced many problems along the way as well but I promise it gets better. Sometimes you become so frustrated with the lace front but this is the best thing that ever happened to us girl. Hang in there. You definitely will be laughing about this in a few months.

thing is God is in this, and that's what matter's.. your a perfectionist and that's what is going to make you great in this business.. and b/c the Lord is in it, you won't be trying to take advantage of others b/c you have a good heart and a wonderful spirit so be patient and God wil deal with it..

I agree with everyone else.  Don't fret  babe!  On a business note, this happens to us all the time, it's that risk factor that us as entrepreneurs are know for

Late last year I received the worst batch of Remy weft hair that I have ever seen in my life.  I mean out of all the cases (pounds in ea) I received probably ONE I could use.  I was right there with you.  Nevertheless, God is awesome and he'll give you the patience you need.  And you will need it,lol

I'm sorry to hear that, Breh.    But keep your chin up!  When you work hard and keep on the positive side, everything works in your favor.  

Hang in there Breh.  With any new business there are going to be ups and downs. Although there is one element that you have on your side, GOD

Keep your head up and continue to trust him.  In a few months when your site is on and popping you will sit back and chuckle.