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 do you think I can do it? - 1 YEAR LATER

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savyy View Drop Down
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Joined: Dec 05, 2007
Location: Canada
Posted: Jan 22, 2008 at 6:44pm
hello everyone, so this is my first official post in the long hair support forums! Here is my challenge; I'm 20 years old, I used to have quite thick hair, and down to my lower back... one bad dye job later and 2 years later I feel like I'm still suffering from it, but things arn't so bad anymore. I've been keeping up with my trims (1" every 2 months) and I think I'm finally at the stage where I'm going to stop all trims, and see what kinda length I can pull in before summer (which would officially june) yesterday I just got my last trim, I got rid of about an inch all around. here's pics of how my hair was just before I trimmed it. it still pretty much looks the same, minus maybe half an inch or so in the back. my hair is naturally dirty blonde, and wavy (like in the pics) it grows quite fast. I have about just under an inch of growth every month, I get my roots done every month with a 9N highlift. I only EVER get my roots done since the accident. I really really want my hair to be at about the small point of my lower back, just above where my waist kinda shrinks in. I figure I'll need about 4-6" depending on what kind of splits I see when the trims stop. feb to june is 5 months... do you think I can do it? no trims for 5 months? or maybe one tiny trim if things start looking bad? I need all the help I can get! I'll keep you posted as much as I can with pics and such. thanks everyone!
 
 
 
 
 
savyy2009-01-06 19:02:43

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Susan W View Drop Down
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Posted: Jan 24, 2008 at 6:44pm
Your hair is lovely!  I don't know if I'd make a "no trims" at all rule, you might be able to do it, but since you lighten it, you might not.  You can certainly grow it to the length you want, you are almost there and it looks great.  If you need a trim at all, base it on whether you have splits or not, because you don't want splits to climb your hair.  Then if you do get them only trim off 1/4".  That way you get to keep almost all of your growth. 


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savyy View Drop Down
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Joined: Dec 05, 2007
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Posted: Jan 24, 2008 at 6:44pm
thanks for your compliments :) I only lighten at the roots so in reallity my hair at the bottom hasn't seen dye in a very long time... but I still do get splits, so I'll take your advice with the 1/4" if I see any. I also only dye the top/front area of my head, I let the back grow out naturally (dirty blonde) I'm thinking about getting my roots done maybe just a 9N from now on, I used to have that... I'm just afraid of getting a "stripe" at the roots... we'll see tho. thanks!

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Joined: May 09, 2005
Location: United Kingdom
Posted: Feb 03, 2008 at 6:44pm
You've got great hair! You probably could achieve what you want although it might be best to avoid heatstyling(don't know if you heatstyle or not) to do it faster.

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Posted: Feb 07, 2008 at 6:44pm
I agree that you're not far from your goal. It's looking good thus far!
 
Your hair looks much lighter than a 9N. It looks lighter than an 11N...

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savyy View Drop Down
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Posted: Feb 11, 2008 at 6:44pm
It could be lighter... I'm not sure if she's using the same formula at the salon, but last time I checked it was a 9N/40/hi-lift :) It gets way lighter in the summer... almost white.
 
anyways, I got another small trim... like half a centimeter, since then it feels like it's grown maybe an inch. I've got another concern about color tho, but I'll post it in the color threads :)

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savyy View Drop Down
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Posted: Mar 18, 2008 at 6:44pm

so it's march, update pic!

 
not sure if it's that much longer... havn't had any trims. but I'll be getting one today when I get my hair done, I've decided on probably just getting a half inch off the front (I've got some wacky layers I don't like anymore there) and maybe just a 1/4" in the back, splits in the back are very minimul surprisingly! except I have noticed my hair seems thinner lately :( I'm not sure why... been losing a lot in the shower too. sucks, sometimes I feel my hair is super thin or always falling out and I just wanna cut it all off!!!! but then a month later it feels great and I'm so glad I didnt. does anyone else ever get hair-moodswings like that? anyways theres an update!

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Bob S View Drop Down
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Posted: Mar 18, 2008 at 6:44pm
     Oh yeah, it is surprisingly longer, Savvy! It's looking super. Shocked Bob

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Posted: Mar 19, 2008 at 6:44pm
Looks great Savyy! Thumbs%20Up
 
What is your goal?

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Mike46019 View Drop Down
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Joined: Apr 05, 2003
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Posted: Mar 23, 2008 at 6:44pm
Looks great. As paper asked what is your goal?

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Susan W View Drop Down
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Posted: Mar 24, 2008 at 6:44pm
It looks great still, and even healthier in the latest photo.  You must be taking very good care of it.

I get like that about mine too.  Sometimes I don't like it, other times I like it a lot.  Sometimes I just want to dye it, others I'm glad I didn't. 

Dyeing hair usually causes some hair loss from the root, but it probably doesn't look as thin as you feel like it looks (it doesn't look thin at all in your photos).  So, even though you know it is thinner than before, no one else can tell.


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Posted: Mar 25, 2008 at 6:44pm
Belated greetings, welcome to the forum Tanya!

Thank you for sharing your story and photographs.  It looks like your hair has made definite progress.  Lucky you with the fast-growing hair (helps absolve a lot of "sins").  Hang in there when you're feeling down.  Come here to commiserate -- we've all had our moments when growing towards our goals.  And FWIW, I think you could grow your hair really long -- if you wanted to.


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savyy View Drop Down
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Posted: Mar 27, 2008 at 6:44pm
thanks everyone :) its a week later and like I said, I feel way better about the thickness issue already. as for my goal length, I want it to my lower back... I think I have 4-6 more inches to go now, and above all I want it healthy and thick down to there. so I'll be having a few trims in between. hopefully by the end of this year I'll be at my goal! yay! thanks for your help and support.

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Posted: Mar 28, 2008 at 6:44pm

You have great hair!  Keep taking good care of it.  And do tell us when you're feeling down about it.  These people have been wonderful to lift me up at times like that.


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savyy View Drop Down
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Posted: Apr 28, 2008 at 6:44pm
feeling down about thinness lately.... felt like my hair was shedding for a month straight and now its finally stopped. sometimes I don't know if it's best to sleep with it in a loose scrunchy at night, or just leave it down... because sometimes when I wear it up too much it feels thin from it, but when its down at night wouldnt I be doing more damage?
 
boo :( no hair update pics cuz I feel like crap. I'm gonna sleep with it down for the week, see if I feel any better. I'm due for a trim at the middle of may, so thats when I'll most likely post an update pic.

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Susan W View Drop Down
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Posted: Apr 29, 2008 at 6:44pm
A satin pillowcase may really help if you're having problems with hair pulling out.  Whether you sleep with it pulled back or down, it will help your head slide over the pillow without tension.

 I'll say again if I hadn't said it before though, your hair really doesn't look thin at all in your pictures.  You may be worrying about something no one else can even see.  Remember that its normal to lose up to 100 hairs a day.  When hair is long, that really looks like a lot of hair, but its normal.




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Posted: May 01, 2008 at 6:44pm
I concur with Susan.  I go through various shedding phases where I seem to lose quite a bit of hair, then it subsides for awhile.

I've found several things that help, especially silica (horsetail herb) and massaging the scalp with the fingertips, for about a minute each day.  I take additional supplements, which also seem to help minimize fallout, including Saw Palmetto, HairTopia herbal plus, biotin, and zinc.


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savyy View Drop Down
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Posted: May 05, 2008 at 6:44pm
thanks for your support, hair seems to have stopped shedding so much ...yay :)

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Posted: May 06, 2008 at 6:44pm
[QUOTE=savyy]thanks for your support, hair seems to have stopped shedding so much ...yay :) [/QUOTE]

YAY! Clap

Also, sometimes we go through cycles when shedding inexplicably increases; sometimes this seems to occur after high levels of stress endured. Ouch

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savyy View Drop Down
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Posted: May 16, 2008 at 6:44pm

I hate when this happens... my hairs been great recently, no shedding issues, looks full and long, virtually no splits. then I go in for my monthly apointment to get my roots done... she left the dye in for an hour and 20 mins, she said it stops working after a while but I swear my head feels like crap. not too much has been falling out or anything but my scalp feels burnt and my hair feels dry down to the tips! (even tho she only did the roots) I also made the mistake and asked her to "dust" the ends which normally I can't even tell she's done but this time she took off half an inch :( which personaly I dont think I needed that much off at all.... I'm pretty bummed out, my bf says my hair looks great and long still but I miss that half an inch more than I should... anyways I'm just ranting. I'll post a pic soon. boo


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Susan W View Drop Down
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Posted: May 16, 2008 at 6:44pm
I'm not a pro, okay, so I don't know everything for sure, but I've never heard of a product that was good to leave on for an hour and 20 minutes.  Everything I've ever seen has done about all its going to do in 45 minutes or less.  So, your scalp got burnt.

 Your ends probably got dry because when it was being washed out it was running over them and that was probably enough to remove any conditioner you had built up on your ends that was keeping them smooth feeling.  Condition 2 or 3 times next time you wash, this should help.

Don't worry about your lost half inch.  Hair normally grows a half inch a month, and depending on where you are in your cycle, that may even happen in 2 weeks.  I agree, it sucks she took it off in the first place, and I hope you mentioned to her that a half inch trim is not a dusting.  I'd say you could probably tell her that and then trust her for trims next time, since she sounds somewhat careful about the trimming, but if she burnt your scalp, you probably don't want to go back to her anyway.


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Posted: May 16, 2008 at 6:44pm
Your hair looks absolutely gorgeous. It looks like Christina Aguilera's hair when she has hair extensions but of course, your hair is real ... barmy I'm a bit concerned about the stylist leaving the hair colour for an hour and a half. I had my hair coloured the other day and they only left the semi permanent in my hair for twenty minutes. If you have reservations at the hairdresser, you need to speak up. I've been to hairdressers where you pay a certain price for a senior hairdresser and they do a consultation but your hair is looked after by an apprentice who may be looking after a few heads of hair. I suggest that you do question them next time and always keep an eye on the time yourself and insist on someone rinsing it out at the alloted time. It's better to be forceful than spend a year being regretful you didn't speak up.

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Posted: May 26, 2008 at 6:44pm
[QUOTE=savyy]... then I go in for my monthly apointment to get my roots done... she left the dye in for an hour and 20 mins, she said it stops working after a while but I swear my head feels like crap. not too much has been falling out or anything but my scalp feels burnt ...[/QUOTE]

Savyy, next time you go, wear a watch.  Ask how long the dye should stay on, and keep her to it.  If time (plus 1 minute) has come and gone and she's not around, call out for her.  If she was professional she wouldn't need to be reminded that it's time to wash out the dye, but since she's shown she doesn't have the discipline, you'll have to manage her.

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savyy View Drop Down
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Posted: Jul 02, 2008 at 6:44pm

so it's been a little while... I've finaly got an update pic too plus an older one for reference:

 
 
I've also converted to doing my roots myself, a scary risk to take but I've done them twice now and it's turned out quite alright. Hair feels like it's getting longer!
 
 

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Posted: Jul 03, 2008 at 6:44pm
Looks great. Nice job.
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