Very thick auburn hair = Emo haircut?

I'm looking for a emo haircut. This is how my hair currently looks [except shorter and thinner, its like up to the middle of my chest now]

^ it doesnt look as long as it was back then in this pic

lmfao ^

As you can

see its frizzy, unmanageable and thick

but then again, i dont even know how to take care of it..

i just dont wash my hair for a while and that seems to mosturize it well

I'm looking for something like this

i straighten my hair sometimes and im wondering if i should go for a short black hair cut with red highlights or naturally curly with bright red OR brown highlights?

I'm scared if I give it a short or emo cut I'll look like a lesbian

Because I am overweight and sometimes short cuts just dont look right with big girls [lesbianish]

My friend got her hair short and shes pretty fat and she looked a little lesbianish

I LOVE THESE COLORS. especially the first one.

Lesbians come in all shapes and sizes.

You won't look like one unless you actually are one.

With that said... do whatever you damn well please to your hair! I really love that red as well. I wonder if I can find that in a bottle...

Odd, 'cause I am an overweight, short-haired lesbian, but most of the time people assume I'm straight :-P .

[QUOTE=loserish]

I'm scared if I give it a short or emo cut I'll look like a lesbian

Because I am overweight and sometimes short cuts just dont look right with big girls [lesbianish]

My friend got her hair short and shes pretty fat and she looked a little lesbianish