very fine guys hair

hey im new and i really dont know anything about hair...but i got a question i was hopin someone would be able to answer. im a guy with really fine hair, after im done washing it, it looks like static charge disaster, its so thin and dry that it sticks up and i look like an idiot. is there a hair product that is like hair grease (as in what builds up if you dont wash your hair for 2-3 days), my hair looks fine if its got a little grease to it. thanks!

What kind of conditioner are you using after you shampoo? I have very fine hair, and I use Suave Daily Clarifying Conditioner to wash (instead of shampoo), then follow it with Suave Humectant, then with Pantene Pro-V, and a few drops of jojoba as the hair is drying. I never have flyaways or static.

I did, it's in my post.