to stretch or not

Hi I am just wondering how other women feel about stretched ear piercings, I have 3 piercings in each earlobe, and I have recently stretched my bottom holes to a 12 gauge( standard piercings are 18-20 gauge). I have bought some really cute bcr rings and some really pretty gym stone plugs in 12 gauge, I don't think I want to stretch them really big because as it is I can still wear standard earrings and they don't look out of place because my holes are to big, this is my experience just wondering how others feel.

I know this post is old, but you might have it set up to email you with replies. 

It's worth remembering that up to 1cm diameter holes will usually close up to their starting size if you take them out. 

I think stretched ears on women are very nice if they are healthy and stretched slowly, and not too big.  Some of te plugs are really pretty!

I personally do not find stretched earlobes attractive and am actually quite turned off by them. Also, I think the only way to "unstretch" them is with surgery. Think about the future - when you're 50 with kids and in a professional environment, are you still going to want stretched earlobes?